“Life isn't about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.” George Bernard Shaw
And as a Christian, this means my authentic self is guided by the Holy Spirit, so that I might give glory to God. We were created in His image; look to the Holy Spirit as a guide. Be aware of worldly pressures and expectations which lead you away from yourself and God's plan for you.
"It is the Spirit that gives life" (Jn 6:63)